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Most men seem not to know when to call or how many times in day, week or month they should be calling. If you follow my advice, you’d obviously be calling more than one woman and hence it would be much like financial portfolio management. You got to make a schedule and stick to it.

Sorry about my meandering. So, how frequently should you be calling each one of your ladies?

You should be calling them at least once a week with each of them. That would mean just once per week with each of them. If you meet any one of them in a week, don’t call.

If you have no intentions of meeting them but just want to talk on the phone. Call once a week and let it go. They will call you after a few days.

Most of my fellow experts like David De Angelo, Mystery and Neil Strauss — who also wrote a book called The Game and The Annihilation Method — would certainly back me up here when I say that you should never be calling the girl the same day when you get the number for the first time. Thumb rule is to stick to a 3 day waiting period before you place the call. Make it 2 if you can’t bear it absolutely and anything sooner, you will bite the dust.

I loved it when Zack Tylor of  Datingthoughts rightly pointed out that it is indeed an awesome, incredible, nervous and a “here we go” moment. Although I don’t agree with him on the fact that you should “tell” her when to call since that brings in a sort of predictability, I do second his opinion that you shouldn’t harass her, call her often, not introduce yourself when you do call and finally, keep it short and to the point.You may want to check out his Pursuit Theory: The First Phone Call.

If you are a full fledged relationship and if you think you met the girl of your dreams, you may relax a bit and call up everyone once in a while. But still there are rules:

• Never be predictable; so don’t develop any regular patterns of calling her.
• Never talk for too long on the phone — I don’t care how sweet, cute or mesmerizing her voice is. Remember what David says “Be the first one to hang up”.
• When you fail to carry the conversation any longer, cut it off there and hang up. Don’t linger and don’t you ever say “What else? How is Life?

It is painful; it isn’t easy when you first get started and it isn’t funny when you feel like calling but your schedule doesn’t permit you to do it. The last time I remember, there was nothing worth achieving which wasn’t painful to a degree or the other. Easy stuff is for kids and sissies. You are a man, so this is what you get.