I often see a lot of men getting despondent and act as if the sky really did fall on their heads the moment their ex-friends walk out that door. I cannot think of anything sorrier than this kind of response. I also see a lot of websites catering to dispense information on how exactly you need to get your ex-girlfriend back — I think a lot of it is shit. Here’s what will help if you keep this in mind:

If she’s gone, why don’t you …